Example Text Message To Send To A Girl You Want To Bang – Part 1/5

What’s up everybody? It’s Yags in the building here to talk to you today about an example text message to send to a girl you are trying to hook up with.

This is part 1 in a 5-part series.

A lot of people ask me about this, like, “What’s the best, cutest, perfect text message to send to a girl?

For me to answer that question for you is somewhat impossible. Why? Because I don’t know the details!

What works in one situation, may not work in another. But what follows is an example text message to send to a girl who 1) you don’t know that well, and 2) you would like to have sex with.

This is an exact copy of the convo that I actually had recently with a chick that I ended up banging. It’s a little long, but I encourage you to read the whole thing to learn my approach.

Day 1

Me: Hey Jen, what’s up, it’s Yags the guy who read your palm the other night at the bar. I meant to call you like I said I would, but it got too late. Are u gonna be around tomorrow?

Couple things here, 1) I read her palm at the bar, something I do frequently. Girls like it and they remember me for years afterward. Learn more about palm reading here.

Jen: Oh yea, hey, I just actually remembered I got a text from you

Me: I’m watching the world series of poker. I was never really into poker, but it can be exciting. U ever watch it?

Just something casual to get the conversation going

Jen: I have watched it yes. i used to hang around some people who were addicted to poker

Me: I could prob get addicted, kinda have an addictive personality. I get over stuff quickly though. Tell me something random about yourself.

I start opening up a little, telling her about me, and then ask her to tell me something random about her — indicating that I’m interested in getting to know her on a personal level. Not just for sex.

Jen: Something random…I can get ready to go somewhere with a shower in twenty min or less. That’s all I can think of at this time of night after a long day.

Me: Hahah, that’s def random. Pretty cool too, not very many girls can say that. What do you do during the day?

Trying to get to know her better – literally JUST met this chick and hung out with her for only a few minutes.

Jen: The fun definition is I play games with kids all day, but the real definition is a social worker or therapist in city schools. What about you?

That’s the first nice sign from her, she asked me a question. I got her

Me: Haha my fun definition is that I mess around online all day, but the real definition is that I’m a web marketing strategist

Jen: I like the fun ones better. The real def make it serious and hard work

Me: Ya I totally agree – let’s just ditch the word “work” – u play with kids, I play online. Feels good when you say it that way. Where’d u grow up?

Jen: I’m an _______ kid

Me: That’s cool, never hung out with one of you before hahaa – how old are you?

Jen: Way too old to be playing with games all day

Me: Way to avoid the question. You may want to give up gaming and take up politics hahah – how old are you for real?

Jen: I’m twenty six, why so curious?

Me: Just wanted to make sure you fit in my mold – I’m 26 too

She has to fit in my mold

Me: Do you live in ________ ?

Jen: Yeah people just never believe me when I say how old I am. They always think I’m about ten years younger so I stay away from that convo. Yes I live in ________ do you?

Me: No I don’t live there anymore : ( I did for a while though. Miss it a lil. I live in Brazil now.

Jen: I want to live in Brazil!

Me: Oh ya? Is that your dream?

Jen: No just lately sounds like a nice idea

Me: Ya u seem pretty spontaneous…and pretty cool. I’m going to bed now but let’s talk again soon, k?

I actually wanted to keep texting with her but I cut it short – it’s always best to be the first to end a call or text.

Jen: Sounds good I’m already half asleep, talk to you soon

See? If I didn’t end it there, she would have

Click here to read part 2/5 on how to text a girl that you want to fuck

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9 Responses to “Example Text Message To Send To A Girl You Want To Bang – Part 1/5”

  1. Mattdavies on February 21st, 2010 3:50 pm


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  6. B_ry on August 30th, 2011 8:48 am

    make a part 3 already I’m already half way through part 2 and she thinks I’m awesome but I know it
    s not a done deal… so come on man!

  7. Wisdom on October 27th, 2011 10:05 am

    I love this

  8. P-Funk on November 25th, 2011 2:21 pm

    Hahah! Thank you :)

  9. P-Funk on November 25th, 2011 2:22 pm

    Working on it :-/ Sorry for the delay.

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